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Jumbled thoughts on polyamoury

Poly advice, worldviews held by poly people, poly communities, etc., tend to have relationship goals opposed to mine – a pithy oversimplified way of putting it is “they see commitment as a means to passion, I see passion as a … Continue reading

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Masculinity, part 2 of 2: Nonviolent Communication is totally gay

In part 1 I talked about what’s scary about not being man enough. In this part, I’ll explain why having feelings is for sissies. “Patriarchy hurts men too” types tend to focus on expressing emotions. And it’s true that enforcement … Continue reading

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Masculinity, part 1 of 2: Who’s afraid of the penis bandits?

Traditional¬†(in Western cultures) masculinity is not very popular, often for good reason, among people who blog about things like traditional masculinity. Men are emotionally repressed. Men aren’t allowed to express any emotions but anger. We need to talk. Why do … Continue reading

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